Title: Raising Godly Tomatoes

Subtitle: Loving Parenting With Only Occasional Trips To the Woodshed

Author: L. Elizabeth Krueger

Publisher’s Synopsis: Weary of struggling with your toddler? Frustrated with the failing advice of secular psychologists and permissive parenting gurus? Leery of the strict focus on rules and the hyper-regimentation advocated elsewhere?

If you are simply looking for a straightforward Biblical approach to parenting that focuses on the heart of your child, as well as his outward actions, then Raising Godly Tomatoes is for you. In these pages you’ll find a wealth of common sense and godly wisdom, a guide to applying reasonable discipline, and instructions on how to build a close relationship with your child.

Raising Godly Tomatoes encourages parents to keep their young children — their little ‘tomatoes’ — lovingly staked to them, in order to train and apprentice them in a godly way of life that will prepare them for Christ’s calling in the future, and render them a pleasure to live with today. Elizabeth is a Christian homeschooling mother of ten children, ages 7 to 27. She lives with her children and her husband of 30 years, in the state of Michigan. She enjoys quilting, riding horses and playing her violin. She also spends much of her spare time encouraging parents daily via her website at RaisingGodlyTomatoes.com.
This is one of the most common sense approaches to parenting that I’ve seen in a long time. It has zippo to do with over-spiritualizing our gardening practices and everything to do with proper training of mind, body and spirit of our children.

I found Mrs. Krueger’s book both sensible and balanced. The simple premise is, “Keep children in sight and/or ear shot until you can fully trust them out of sight and/or earshot.”  While not exactly a complicated concept, it is quite revolutionary in today’s parenting climate.

When you think about it, the concept is simple common sense.  If children are to learn how to behave and what is and isn’t acceptable behavior, we must be near them in order to demonstrate proper behavior and nip improper behavior in the bud.

I was surprised by several of the reviews I read on Amazon.com regarding this book. To read what some had to say, you’d think we read entirely different books. Mrs. Krueger encouraged parents to be reasonable, consistent, and most of all, loving! There is no pressure to isolate ourselves from everyone around us and where anyone got that idea, I cannot fathom! There is no encouragement to physical harshness of any kind.  While Mrs. Krueger does not discourage corporal punishment, she certainly does NOT encourage the use of it on whim or for simple childishness.  What is advocated in this book is, as the title says, “occasional” and obviously (if you actually read how she encourages constant loving interaction) nothing extreme or excessively harsh.  While I think the change would be initially difficult for both parent and child, embracing the simple principles of togetherness with your children and the consistent discipleship of their character will certainly foster close and loving relationships. I recommend that readers find Mrs. Krueger’s website by the same name and read excerpts from the book and make an intelligent decision based upon rational assessment rather than overly dramatic misinformation.

I decided to give a copy away to a commenter because I believe that this book could really encourage mothers.  So, to enter, simply post a comment and tell us the best parenting advice you’ve ever received.

Week 3-  Start Small or Go for Broke

Well, I really had to think hard about this.  You see, on the one hand, definitely, I need to go for broke.  But, when you read what she says to do, it becomes daunting.  You see, I don’t have a whole room that I can box up, move out, and then slowly move back in.  I have a very small house.  Furthermore, half my craft space is dedicated to sewing paraphernalia.But as I thought about things, I realized that most of what I have IS boxed already!  Yippie!  I won’t move it out per se, and I won’t be painting or anything, but I can do quite a bit.  I’m actually planning on doing some book renovations and such. If I’m going to do my space, I’m going to make sure the rest of my room fits it.  My bedroom is my scrap/craft room.  So, I’m going to go for it.  All the way.  here we go!

Yep… if you missed that… I’m “going for broke.  Just sayin’.

The big “go for broke” assignment is to VACUUM.  Well, I dusted and dustbusted.  I’m still dusting and dustbusting.  Let’s just say that I think these bunnies have FANGS.  I do pretty good at keeping anything I can reach dusted.  However, if it’s near the floor or my hands can’t reach it, I forget to dust.  Then the bunnies multiply (as God created bunnies to do) and man… they are mutants!  So, while the bulk of the area was relatively dust-free, this um… well… wasn’t.

Week 3-  Bonus for Overhaulers

Bonus for overhauling…  Ok… I was a little afraid to read, but I did it.

So, here’s my “scrapbook” of ideas

Compliments of HGTV

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  • Compliments of Flicker
  • Compliments of Home-designing.com

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    I particularly love this because I have some great storage drawers that I realize would fit in my bedroom closet on the floor!  YES!!

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    I want to figure out how they hung these cans…

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    Oh, well now, look at this!  It says “Paper-covered soup cans hold markers, pencils, and brushes. Punch a hole in the back of the can to hang.”

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    For my handled boxes…

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    Do this to my white boxes?

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    I’m thinking this might be a good idea

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    Ok, I like this idea for clear stamps.

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    I really think this’ll be my paper solution.  I think.

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    She asked a few questions to get you thinking… I thought I’d answer them.. cause I can.

    Where will your main scrap area be? Well, everything I do will likely be done in my bedroom at the craft table.  Semi sitting/standing unless I’m sewing.

    What tools need to be close by, which ones can be stored further away? I think paper can be portable, but I need to be able to easily get to the stuff that goes on paper.  Otherwise, I won’t do it.  Photos also can be stored away as long as they aren’t “out of sight/out of mind.”  I definitely need to be able to walk in, grab my paper, sit down, and have most of the rest of the stuff within easy reach.

    How about workstations – one for stamping, one for die cuts, etc? Not possible.  I don’t have the space.  However, if I planned my work out when I’m going to do big projects, I could do work DAYS where I did all the die cuts one day, all the stamping another, all the assembling another… etc.

    I also want to consider what using the drawers under my bed or a new bed like THIS would do for the room.  We’ll see.

    Ok, so she’s hinting that we should have color choices for paint now.  Well, my room has a color choice for paint.  I was also thinking it HAS been painted, but I just remembered that the whole thing hasn’t.  So, I may take this week and try to finish painting the parts of the room that are unpainted.  Just for kicks and giggles.  However, if I have to choose between painting and finishing the organizing and PURGING I’m doing… purge gets it.  I’m in a de-clutter mood and I’m going to embrace it while I’ve got it.  But, for the record, my walls will be cream, my trim BRIGHT WHITE, my Roman shades are blue and white striped with silver dots (which I’ve never really paid attention to until now, but I might get some gray with a sheen for accents somewhere to grab it.  For the fun don’tcha know.  My splash of color is going to be RED.  I’ve decided that I like red with light blue as long as the blue is the predominant color.  I have pretty vinyl wall clings I bought to brighten up my space, and I’m going to put them up too.  :)

    My space was already mapped out for me, so I didn’t have to do that part.  It’s pretty simple.  I get one corner of the room unless we build that bed, and school gets the opposing wall, and our bed gets the last wall.  Voila.  Snort.

    I am considering putting a lingerie drawer that I have in my garage on one wall.  If I CAN’T, then I’ll put it at the back of my closet where I plan to REMOVE the crates that are holding seldom to never used stuff and PURGE.  YES!  She said to “go on a house hunt” to find little used space.  Well, I’m going to do that in a bit of a different way.  I’m looking around my house for stuff I can

    • get rid of
    • reassign a home for it in the house
    • store in the garage
    • replace with something smaller/more efficient

    Already, I’ve decided that I am not storing my sheets under my bed anymore.  I have drawers under my bed for the sheets, but that’s just ridiculous.  So, I’m keeping spare sheets in a tote in the girls’ closet and voila.  Out of my hair.  I’m lovin’ it.  We’ll see what else I can find.  I’m thinking this is gonna be great.

    Have you ever found the perfect something and then discovered that perfect or not, you can’t have it?  We did that this week while looking for fabric for dresses for the girls to wear to a wedding next month (pick yourself up off the floor,  I know it’s not tomorrow and I already have fabric… sometimes I work ahead… sometimes).  I found this at Fabric.com, and instantly, we all loved it.  However, when I went to put it in my cart, there were only 3 yards.  Enough for one dress, but then what about the other girls?  I wasn’t sure.  So, I kept looking.

    Today, I woke up and knew I had to go down to the Quilted Quail and find something.  Now normally, I love going into that store and perusing the beautiful fabrics that they have available.  Let’s face it, nothing gets your creative juices flowing like a store FULL of raw materials.  Pun intended.

    I wandered around the room, its nooks, the crannies, and paused before several prints, but none of them said, “This’ll be GREAT!”   Then, as I was explaining to the owner Cindy what I was making, I saw it.   THE FABRIC.  Sitting on a shelf, and with enough for two of the dresses.  With it,  coordinating fabrics that would work to make up the loss (and now don’t I wish I’d bought what fabric.com had while they had it.  Drat!)  I found a nice print that reads as a solid and voila.  We’ve got DRESSES!  I am so stinkin’ excited!

    You know, I know  that God cares about the little things.  I mean, if He keeps tabs on the number of hairs I have on any given days, He cares about little girls and their clothing.  So, for what it’s worth, God blessed us with fabric today.  I’m so thankful that if I was a crier, I’d be weeping!  Thank you, Lord, for the little things.

    Pretty cool, isn’t it!  $17.17

    February is a shorter month, so I doubt we’ll be $34.34 at the end of the month!

    Faith got it with an even seventeen dollars so she wins!  I’ll pick a card and take a pic and send it out!

    Ok, with all the buzz about change that we’ve had since President Clinton and the ’90’s and now with President Obama, I decided to ensure REAL change occurs in the Havig House.  Enter…  THE JAR.

    I bought this sucker for $5 bucks on clearance at K-Mart.  It was one of those pre-wrapped gifts for $20 dollars that you buy for gift swaps and hard to shop-for nephews or brothers-in-law. The reason it’s so cool is that it has a nice digital counter that counts your money as it goes in.  So, I can tell you, at the end of the year, just how much money is in the thing!

    I liked this change because it signaled financial growth in some area of life during this recessed economy.  What can I say, I’m into the visual.

    So, I decided to share the growth of this silly little jar.  I took pictures today of how full it is, and I’m thinking it’d be fun to see who comes closest.  To make it even more fun, I’ll mail a handmade card or bookmark, your choice, to the person who comes closest as LONG as they get within 75 cents.  To make it even MORE fun, I’m going to keep the contest going until there’s a winner!  But wait, there’s more!  Act now and you can enter once per day until I have a winner!  You say your family wants in on the fun, no problem!  Just have them post their guesses too!  This contest is for ANYONE and all for only … um… the time it takes to post a guess!  That’s right, for just seconds, you too can win a marvelous handcrafted paper item and there are no shipping and handling charges.  Better yet, NO TAX!  How can you resist.

    I’ve taken a picture of the top of this jar and I’ll post it as soon as there is a winner.  Enter now, enter often, WIN… and come back next month for another prize and another chance.

    For Reference:

    Jar height:  6.5″

    Jar width:  4.5″

    Week Two– Brainstorming

    Ok, so the first thing she does in week two is gets you thinking about your “dream space”.  What would you have if you could have anything in the world?

    This was an eye-opener for me.  Once upon a time, my dream space would have been a 12×14 or 13×17 room that was ALL mine, possibly detached from the house, that no one but me ever went in.  Then I got that dream space sort of and I discovered that I do not like being separate from where my children are.  As much as I CRAVE being alone much of the time, I don’t crave the negative things that crop up in my children’s behavior and habits when my eyes aren’t on them.  So, not now, no.  Someday.  Maybe.

    What I actually want now is highly organized space that is pretty.  Something that doesn’t look utilitarian when I am not there.  I want to pack as much as possible into in as small a space as possible without creating a situation that looks perfect when all put away but if you move one thing, it creates chaos.  I like white painted wood with fabric.  I also like a little splash of color which might mean that my thread drawer gets painted red instead of white.  I have to think about that.  I keep trying to decide what I want most.  I like parts of this

    But honestly, what seems to grab me are the cubbie/basket combinations.  Whatever I do, my sewing/crafting corner is in one corner of my bedroom.  I have another wall I can get some from, but not much.  One thing that I really appreciated was her mentioning if I craft standing up or sitting down.  I would have tried, automatically, to design a sit-down space.  It’s what naturally comes to mind, but you know what?  I like to do my paper crafting half-standing.  That was a stunning revelation to me.  Once I saw island height work spaces in several craft rooms, I realized that when I made tags for the gifts at Christmas, I did it sitting at a bar stool, half standing, and I liked it.  You see, I have a gateleg craft table in my bedroom that usually stands against one wall at only a little over a foot wide.  However, lift a large leaf and pull out the “gates” for legs, and voila.  One medium sized table.  With just a flick of a wrist and a jerk of the table and I can have a very long space to work on if I choose.  It looks like this

    However, mine is not red, but boring white laminate.  You can learn more about this table at Rowecraft. I can’t tell by the picture of that one, but mine is waist high like a counter top.

    The next thing you do after you envision yourself, is get your list from last week’s scrap/card making and see how things would be in this room.

    This is my list from last week with expanded notations based upon if I was doing things from my dream space rather than my actual space.

    What works–

    I have stuff to do it.

    I could find my

    • pens———–Yes, I could find these last week, but honestly, I’d rather have had them stand out more.  It worked and worked well, but it would be nicer if I could just grab a container and go rather than unpack a whole box.  I had each of my boxes lined up on the end of my bed last week and it was easy to grab what I needed but it did all have to be repacked when I was done.  So, for colored pencils, markers, pens, etc, I would prefer to have them in a bucket– even if I have to look at it.
    • stickers———-Ok, I don’t use stickers often, but if I could have a perfect system for them, I’d want them in a binder in sleeves so I could just flip through the binder, grab the sheet out of the sleeve, and move along to the next.  A binder could be covered in fabric, oilcloth, or decoupaged for fun and prettiness.
    • glue/tape——— I think this is fine as it is.  I just have a box, but I don’t use a ton of different glue tape things and they all fit in the box easily so I can just dump and go when I’m done.  Of course, a pretty basket would be more fun, but hey.   I could take or leave how I have it now.  I’m good either way.
    • punches———– The only change I’d make is put a sample of each one on the shoe bag that holds them.  Otherwise, we’re good.
    • stamps———– Now this… let’s just say I consider it frustrating as all get out and love it at the same time.  It works.  It works well.  Again, a box, this one 12×12″ and 3 or 4″ tall, packed with the goods.  Hard to put away but I’m anal enough about this stuff that I do it.  Definitely.  I’d love two things.  First, another binder or two for acrylic stamps.  It could sit with the sticker binder.  As for rubber stamps, I don’t know.  Honestly, I just don’t know.  Man, dream speaking, I’d buy printers trays and lay them out in those or something.  Cool stuff.
    • ink———- Well, if they didn’t have to be stored flat, I’d love a basket where they stood on end and I flipped through them like CDs.  Alas, it doesn’t work that way.  Right now, they’re in a box, it works, but man, my DREAM idea would be to have a mini cabinet with a door, where you open, pull out the color du jour, and voila.  Done.  As it is, they work great in the box I have, but I do have to lay them out on the table to find the one I want.  Not a big nuisance, but if I’m dreaming, I’d change it.

    What I couldn’t find/use were

    • photos———- Right now, my photos are in one of two places.  They’re either inserted willy nilly into regular albums or are sitting in zip lock baggies.  I’d LIKE to have some kind of order so I could pull out a photo box, flip through it, and voila.  Even better, I’d LOVE to, while watching movies or something, sort them into page ideas so I can store them with dividers.  That way I pull out a group of pics and know that if I scrap those, they go together.  voila.  Done.  Next?  If I had my dream room, in one of those cubbies I showed in the link up there, I’d have a few photo boxes, labeled by year or subject (I’m thinking subject with year on the back of the photo), and ready to pull out and have at it.
    • paper————- It’s funny, I tried thinking of a dozen things, and they all had charms.  every sheet in a page protector in a binder would be nice but come on, I’d never keep it up.  But, that’d be my FIRST choice.   If the room came with an organizer that kept things how I like them, sure!  Perfect.  However, it doesn’t work that way so it ain’t happenin’.  I have drawers, but I hate going through them (and they’re shallow drawers! Hmmmm note to self:  Might be good for stamps though! What I finally kept coming back to was an accordion type folder that would let me flip through each page etc. I would also love to have lots of cards precut so I can grab a basic card and then grab scraps or coordinating paper to go with it.  I think maybe scraps is the idea for my paper thing.  I could easily sort scraps into that.   So, that’s what I’m thinking is best for me.  Not my idea, but realistic.  I’m never going to keep up the ideal.  Snort.
    • pages to work ON———– I don’t have a preferred album.  I’ve always used Creative Memories, and they just don’t impress me anymore.  After years of almost zero use (we don’t look at them often because the first few times they felt flimsy), the page protectors fall apart, the binding feels loose, and I hate that cardboard spine cover thing.  It annoys me to no end.  So, I didn’t HAVE an album or pages to draw from but it was a problem so I wrote it down.  I think I’d want pages in one of those drawers– maybe where the paper used to go.  That’d be an easy peasy way to grab pages and go.  I’d also want a cubby with finished and in progress albums so I could pull it out and know if I’m on a two page layout situation or a one page beginning/end kind of thing.    I’d LOVE suggestions for albums– any but Creative Memories.  I am simply not interested in theirs.
    • embellishments——– Ok, so I have embellishments everywhere.   Little glass jars, little lunch boxes, little paint cans covered in pretty paper, little metal tins, yeah… you get the picture.  The problem is, I like that set up from an aesthetic point of  view.  So, I need a balance of pretty and easy to find.  I’d like to know exactly where they are and it be easy to grab and put away.  I think maybe if I simply had a photo of the embellishment containers with what is in it written on the photo so I could glance at the book and reach for the right container, before long,  I wouldn’t even need the picture.
    • Tools——- last week, I didn’t put this down because I didn’t try/need to use them.  However, I need a place for my heat gun, all embossing stuff, die cuts, machine, etc.  I really see me using a basket for die cuts and flip through like a CD holder.  Grab what I want and go.  Ideally, each type of tool would have its own basket that sat on a shelf.  I grab said basket (I’d love to find a really cute labeling system for these baskets so that when my daughters use them, it’s easy for them to put things away again), get to work and then put back on the shelf.

    A few other ideas that I have are new things.  Right now, if I get something new, it’s a pain and a half because I’m liable to lose it before I find a home for it.  So, one of the number one things I want is to have room for new things.  I see it as a two part solution.

    1. I need to make sure I don’t max out my space.  I need my ink box, for example, to have room for more ink.  I need more room in stamp storage, ribbon storage, or whatever for those things when I get new stuff.
    2. I also need a place to put new things when I get them until I have time to put them away.  I’m learning that this might be a good idea for a lot of my home.  For example, if I buy Lorna new unders, I don’t give them to her until she brings me all of her old ones.  So, while she gathers them up from laundry and drawers, I need a place for those unders that isn’t lying on the table.  My decor style isn’t early unmentionables.  Just sayin’.  The same is true of a new stamp set or die for die cuts.

    I’m supposed to take a picture of my space, but my husband is asleep so I’ll have to do it tomorrow.  This is what my space looks like when I am on top of the clutter.

    For more pictures, see the rest here. There, week two is done.  Now that wasn’t so bad, was it?

    Here we go!  We have a winner!  Congratulations Cathe!  I’m putting it in the mail asap!  Let us know what you thought of it!

    Title: Angels

    Subtitle:  Who They Are and How They Help…what the Bible Reveals

    Author: Dr. David Jeremiah

    Publisher’s Synopsis: The Remarkable Truth about the Agents of Heaven

    People have long been fascinated by stories of angel sightings, yet many contemporary beliefs about angels are based on misconception and myth rather than solide, biblical truth.
    As he’s done so brilliantly for decades, respected Bible teacher Dr. David Jeremiah uses Scripture to unveil the remarkable truth about these agents of heaven and their role in our world and our lives.
    What are angels? What is their role in God’s plan? Are they present? Do they appear? Do they give us personal insight about our work and our worship?
    In this broad and thorough survey of Scripture, Dr. Jeremiah clearly and simply separates fact from fiction as it relates to angels. His enlightening findings are supported with illustrations and insights from prominent teachers, such as Billy Graham, Corrie ten Boom, C. S. Lewis, and more.
    Dr. Jeremiah’s down-to-earth style guides readers around the hype about angels and directly into the “substance of things unseen!”

    Where to begin?  You see, I have a ’system’ for doing book reviews.  It’s pretty basic.  They arrive at my house, I open them, read the back, rub my hand over the cover a few times (no this isn’t some mystical ritual designed to infuse the words into my soul by touch, I just like how new books feel), and then put them in the “to read” basket.  I need to take a picture of that sometime.  It’s pretty cool.  Anywho, then, a week or two before the blog tour, I pull out the book, stare at it for a day or three while I write on my own stuff, and finally crack it open.  Then I usually inhale it in about two hours, open up my WordPress dashboard, and click on that “new post” button.  The review begins, ends, and posts in about half an hour with interruptions.  Not too shabby.

    But, once in a while, I start to read a book and realize, I can’t do it that way this time.  There is so much information packed into the book that I want to share, that I’m terrified I’ll forget when it comes time to write the review.  So, with those books (and I can count on one hand the number there have been… two I think), I start with the WordPress post open and write as I come to things.  I’ll bet it’s easy to find them based upon a different writing style, and yep, you guessed it; this is one of those books.

    I expected a book on angels to be either riveting, nauseating, or down right boring.  Well, we’ll see but from the bit I’ve read thus far, I’m going for riveting.  Grab a cup of coffee, get yourself a cookie or twenty, and make yourself comfortable.  We’re in for a journey through the fascinating but often misunderstood subject of Angels.

    I read along through the first pages nodding at the frustration of the actual worship that some people seem to have of angels.  Most of my doubts about whether Dr. Jeremiah would be one of those worshipers dissipated during those pages.  He points out that Satan himself was once an angel and presents himself as an angel of light.  Two of the most influential religions in the world today began with the ‘vision’ of an ‘angel’– Islam and Mormonism.    Page sixteen has a quote I feel compelled to share.  “The syrupy-sweet, spirit-tingling taste of a little angelism can ruin people’s appetite for the good, solid food of God’s Word and His gospel of grace and truth.”  Wow.  That’s all I’ve got to say.  If the rest of the book is this good, we’re in for an amazing journey.

    It was a sobering thought to be reminded that every person who claims to have encountered an angel and yet, has does not claim Jesus as Savior, cannot have possibly been helped by an angel of God.  A fallen angel, perhaps, but Hebrews makes it clear that God sends angels to help His children.  This really drove home to me how often I ignore the very real truth that Satan’s angels are still angels, and they are still at work in this world.  You see, I tend to get a little tired of people blaming Satan for their own selfishness and sinfulness.  The old ‘the devil made me do it’ just doesn’t cut it with me.  I’m sorry, but every time you snap at your husband for forgetting the one thing you needed and he promised he’d bring home (not that I’ve ever done anything so revolting, mind you), it’s not Satan there forcing you to do it or even luring you into the temptation.  Nine times out of ten… or more like ninety-nine out of a hundred, you did it without needing his encouragement.  He’s probably grateful to get the credit without the work, though.  The fact is, every man who falls into pornography wasn’t necessarily tempted there directly by Satan.  A man is perfectly capable of immersing himself in it without any outside inducements.  The same is true of the lust of money, the overindulgence of food, or the sin of anger or bitterness.  Yes, Satan tempts us to sin– but I really don’t see Him doing it when we’re doing a fine job by ourselves.

    What did all of that have to do with angels and whatnot?  Well, I was trying to point out that because I tend to refuse to give Satan the credit for my own sinfulness that didn’t require his additional help, I tend to gloss over the fact that he and his minions DO try to prowl about and seek those who otherwise need his distractions from the truth of God.

    Dr. Jeremiah makes an excellent argument for modern day angelic activity and while I’ve never doubted the presence of angels in our world, I have unintentionally dismissed it.  The odd thing is, so many times in my life something should have happened that didn’t.  I’ve been protected from minor things like a ricocheted bullet barely grazing the side of my face instead of piercing my eye as it should have to several times that I might have been molested had it not been for an unusual intervention that shouldn’t have occurred.  I always saw them as God’s protection over me and that hasn’t changed, but reading the book, I do question why I never wondered if God had used angels for that purpose.  Other times, I’ve no doubt of the prompting of the Holy Spirit, but those times were more for me to do something rather than for my own protection.  Pray for this person, send that person something to encourage them, make that phone call.  You know that nagging in your spirit that won’t go away until you yield…  I’m not talking about that.  I’ve no doubt that those times, I’m feeling the work of the Holy Spirit in my life.  It’s a very fearsome thing, wonderful, but fearsome.  However, those times that something should have gone wrong but inexplicably didn’t… who knows?  Perhaps I have an angel or twenty to thank for their service to the Lord.

    As I read, I started to wonder, why angels?  This is the omnipotent God of Heaven and Earth.  Why on earth would He need angels to do what could happen with a thought..  I think it’s because of our humanity.  We respond well to direct interaction.  Our spirit reacts to it.  We crave interpersonal connection that God has chosen to reserve for Heaven.  I cannot touch God.  I cannot weep on His shoulders.  However, if He chose to, He could send an angel to bless me with that kind of ‘in the flesh’ support.  I think that’s why God uses angels, but so far, it’s just a theory.  Let’s see if Dr. Jeremiah happens to address it.

    I have to say, I enjoyed the “flight of the angels” as I like to call his speed trip through Scripture to show what angels in Scripture did and why.  I understand why he broke the Bible up into sections to show specific purposes to angelic activity lumping all the announcing into one, all the protection into another, and all the warrior activity and so forth.  I’m just a chronological kind of gal and that little bit bugged me.  Nothing major of course, but it bugged me.

    He gives us three warnings that he sees in scripture(paraphrased):

    1. Don’t recreate angels into our own ideas of what they are or should be.
    2. We cannot allow ourselves to let angels replace God in our lives.
    3. Don’t try to worship angels.

    One of the most poignant reminders in this book is of the meaning of the word angel.  It’s root word means “messenger”.  Now, if you’re like me, you learned that in Sunday school or maybe it was in Bible lessons at school.  Whichever it was, you knew in your head that this is so, but man, it really hit home to me exactly the point of angelic activity.  I’m not talking about further revelation from God.  Yes, I believe the canon of scripture is complete, I do not believe that we receive new and continuing revelation today that is on par with scripture in any way, shape, or form.  However, that doesn’t mean that God does not use these messengers to proclaim His truth (that will not be contradicted from His Word) to us in some more physical or other fashion.  Seeing an angel as a messenger certainly helps drive away the “Christianized Santa Claus” that so many people seem to expect from angels.  “I can’t find my check… maybe God will send an angel.”  Sigh.  He drives home the point that the messenger is the envelope that carries a piece of the person writing.  You don’t admire and give your loyalty to the envelope– you save it for the message and the one who wrote it.  Brilliant analogy in my opinion.

    A nit-picky aside:  Why is it that he capitalizes “Another” when referencing the Holy Spirit but when referencing Jesus, the Father, or the Holy Spirit as “he” there is no capitalization.  I truly despise the way we’ve removed capitalizing the pronouns for deity.

    One of the most profound parts of the book were the last three little paragraphs of chapter four.  Here, Dr. Jeremiah points out that there is an aura of mystery and awe around angels in scripture, but modern Christians have become very arrogant in trying to reason the Lord and His ways out into neatly compartmentalized and easily understood boxes.  We think we’ve cornered the God market.  How foolish we are.  Angels are just one tiny bit of proof that the Lord of Heaven and Earth is far too majestic, holy, and awesome for us to possibly grasp with our feeble, fallible minds.

    He makes a case for angels having been created to help us.  I think his case is weak.  I’m not saying it isn’t possible or that I even disagree with him, however the fact is, I don’t see scriptural support for his premise, and therefore, I don’t’ think he’s proven his case.  He also makes speculations about different things in scripture possibly being angels.  While I don’t disagree that they could be (one was the star over Bethlehem at Jesus’ birth), the way he did it felt a little… oh, I’m having trouble with the right word.  I think careless is as best as I can do.  He’s a little careless with his theories.  While he does identify them as simply possibilities, there is something about the way he writes that makes it easy to see them as assumptions.  I think he treads near dangerous waters with the theories.  I’m sure it could be done in a way that makes the speculative aspect more overt, and I wish he’d done that.

    One of the most simple but amazing things that the book talks about is order.  After several paragraphs about the possibilities of ranks for angels, he says, “Unlike the angels and nature, we humans have deliberately turned away from God’s original design for us.  So now we have to go through the struggle of rediscovering that ordinary design, then understanding and applying it.”  And then later “Yes, orderliness is just as important in church and at home as it is in nature and the angelic sphere.”  He asks if the reader is experiencing disorderliness at home or in the church and if so, where might Satan (and I’ll add our own sinfulness because I do like to put blame where it is due)… he asks specifically, “Can you pinpoint the ways that God’s designed is being overlooked or opposed?”  Wow.  Just, wow.  YEP!  That really made me think.  I have a feeling that this one small section of the book might be life changing for me!

    I loved how he shows us what we can learn from angels.  How to worship, how to revere, how to fear the Lord.  In a day when simple reverence is missing from so much of our lives, it’s a fine thing to be reminded, especially by those constantly in the presence of the Lord, just how majestic He is.  We need a little old fashioned awe, and one way to learn it is by watching how the angels react to the Lord and His presence.  One could say we learn how to react to the present of His presence.  Just sayin’.  They also show us how to work– how to serve God!  This is something people are always wanting to do, and so often not succeeding.

    Through chapters on Satan and through to how angels accompanied Jesus through His life, this book gives very solid Biblical information about angels.  The author is very careful to point out when he is speculating, but his writing style or something always seems to soften it as almost fact.  A lazy reader could easily come away from the book believing things that the author himself may not agree with.  It’s my only real problem with the book.  On a topic so important and so nebulous, it’s very important, in my opinion, to make any suppositions very clear– abundantly clear, so as not to perpetuate the modern folklore that surrounds angels.  So much of it is pure garbage.

    Do I recommend the book?  Absolutely.  Am I glad I read it?  You bet!  It’s probably the best thing I’ve ever read on the subject and I think that what he shows as absolute truth is spot on.  Much of his theory I think is loosely but Biblicallly supported.  It’s a book I’d recommend to anyone who knows they have a lifetime of misinformation to correct.  However, if for nothing else, his point regarding orderliness is worth the read alone.

    Waterbrook provided this book for review and a second copy for me to give away.  I am having a drawing  from the list of commenters.  So, don’t forget to leave a comment and when you do, tell me what about angels interests you most!

    I’ll try to draw on Friday.  I’m off to draw for Male Factor right now!

    Ok, so this month, it was hard to decide what to do.  I loved the dark green paper in this kit, I loved the stamp frame (and almost used it… oh talk about COOL.

    I’m not really happy with it, and if I do a better job later, I’ll redesign it to sow a better idea, but for now, here you have it.  The designer is Irene V. Alexeeva She’s part of the amazing team over at Scrap Orchard, and this kit is Heart Rock– Perfect for Valentine’s Day pictures.  Can’t you imagine pictures of your Valentine’s party, portraits of your kids, or couple pictures of you and your special one?  Maybe you want to make a great page to send to grandma and grandpa for their albums.

    Stepping out of the box, you could easily do this for engagement photos, love the pet photos, or even costume layouts if the colors were right!  The elements are definitely “romance” themed, but paired with other pictures and depending on how you used them, it could easily be just a great layout for any pictures.

    Personally, I love Scrap Orchard and their designers.   What will you find in this kit?

    The kit includes:

    -8 unique textured and patterned papers;
    - a couple of bright red realistic feather wings;
    -1 spray of scattered rose petals;
    -1 cord fastener with two red buttons;
    -1 lacy paper mat
    -1 red Chinese cord fastener;
    -1 stamp;
    -12″ long beaded wire;
    -2 antique keys;
    -1 vintage keyhole;
    -1 cord bow;
    -1 curly red ribbon;
    -1 heart shaped red satin ribbon frame;
    -1 rustic ruby charm;
    -1 paper butterfly;
    -2 paper flowers with ruby gems;
    -1 shabby red stapled paper heart;
    -1 lacy golden heart;
    -1 distressed newspaper frame;
    -1 red bling frame;
    -1 newspaper swirl;
    -1 scrap of red messy net;
    -1 heart dangle;
    -1 shabby wooden frame;
    -1old paper frame with tear-off tickets;
    -1 distressed journaling mat;
    -1shabby perforated paper frame;
    -1 scalloped paper heart frame.

    So what are you waiting for?  Zip on over and see what the people at Scrap Orchard have for you!

    I’ve always loved Thoreau’s statement above.  Whereas much of his philosophy is very humanistic, this seems quite Biblical to me.  In it I see,

    • Recognize that your life is a gift from the Lord
    • Be a good steward of that life
    • Whatever you do, do ‘heartily’ as unto the Lord

    As much as I’ve always loved that quote, I never really saw it as something tangible or attainable.  It was just a good reminder not to fritter away my life.

    I started writing a book a couple of years ago– it’s almost a soap operatic in it’s length and you can read the entire thing online at Fairburytales.com.   The main female character (Willow) in the story has lived this maxim her entire life.  Her mother worked to live every day to its fullest and taught Willow to do the same.  As I pondered ways for her to do this, I realized that there are several ways that people live their lives.

    1. They exist– allowing life to take them on rides across the waves of life going up and down with the undulations that naturally come with the waves.
    2. They plan enough to squeeze every minute out of life but not necessarily living.
    3. They take the life they have and live every moment of it deliberately enjoying each moment.
    4. The live life deliberately by creating the life they want.

    I’m sure there are other ways, of course, but those are the ones I came up with while I pondered it all.  And, I’m guessing many of us are a mixture of two or more of these.

    What’s the point of this rambling nonsense?  Well, I realized today that I’m seven months from my fortieth birthday.  Based upon the fact that my father’s family lives a very long time and my mother’s is shorter, I’m guessing that my life is about half over now.  It’s been a very good life.  Of course, I could die tomorrow, but if I don’t, I want to LIVE.  I need to remember to live the parts of my life that I can’t choose, by creating what I CAN choose within them.  The rest of my life, I need to pour out before the Lord, choose my steps carefully, and not let externals dictate who I will be.

    When I come to the end of my life, I want to be able to say, “I didn’t bury the life you gave me in the dirt, Lord.  I lived it– to the fullest!  Thank you for the blessing of the life I had.”

    So tell me, what ideas do you have for me?  What would change or create to make your life the life you want to live?